Sometimes we trip ourselves up. No matter how innovative we are or how hard we work on our writing projects we leave the door open to the worst of housemates – self-doubt – and it lives rent free. Sometimes the best thing we can do is ask for help and be open to criticism.
You need to trust your writing process to help you improve.Then comes the question: who to ask?
A Couple of Suggestions
A trusted friend or a professional advisor who won’t hold back from presenting you with writing support that helps you find the truth. Whether you pay for this or you’re lucky to have someone who can simply respond to your script with a rare focus, it is important to let the truth sit hard. Sometimes the best thing we can do is ask for help and be open to criticism.
My New Project
Are you wondering what I’ve been working on that has made me want to talk about this? Well, I’ve been beavering away on a brand new project, a middle grade children’s book. Like many writers trying out a new format for the first time, it’s not always easy. I’ve had wonderful advice and writing support along the way but then just as soon as you finish the first draft, which for me is always at least three drafts in, you realise this is the first time you’ve written anything for children. How on earth can you be sure it is doing what you hoped it would.
So I’m feeling really positive because my call for help was answered – and in spades. Yes there was some positive feedback but the reality is I need to rewrite. It’s not all bad but it demonstrates how, in this instance, I really needed some great advice. My idea is strong and most of the characters too, but the nagging doubt I had has been confirmed: something is missing and if I am to succeed I must find it and add it into the mix.
I can’t wait.
Thank you for your honesty and I know you are waiting to read the next draft. I won’t let you down.
Sometimes the best thing we can do is ask for help and be open to criticism.